We were at a party the other night, and there was a discussion going on. It was provoked by a guy who confessed, that after years of experiencing rejection, he'd lost all ability to even approach a pretty woman. Sad.

The topic of Internet pickup gurus came up, and mainly: Could these methods work for us? And, more importantly:

What is the bottom line in picking up women?

This is when this beautiful woman joined in. And I mean, WOMAN. "Confidence," she said. Just look us in the eye with confidence."

Pretty simple, right? I then asked her what happens if we don't have confidence. "Just fake it," she chuckled. But she knew it was easier said than done. And, in fact, we would say, "faking it" is next to impossible.

Oh, sure, if we want to land bimbos and skanks, faking it might be a viable option. But if we're talking: REAL WOMEN, the kind we fantasize about, there is no substitute for CONFIDENCE.

Real confidence, begins when we ask ourselves, and start to live by, two all-important questions:

1) Where am I going?

2) Who is going with me?

NOTE: If we ask those questions in reverse, we're setting ourselves up to be whipped for our entire life! And aren't there enough whipped men out there already?

Isn't it time we became MEN and not MICE?

Think about the Party Goddess's statement, it's really simple to intellectualize: In order to get women, we need to possess confidence. How do you do that? We'll get into it in our next installment of "Get More Dates."

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