1. What's the worst mistake a guy can make in approaching a woman?

TFD: Being nervous. You can get away with almost anything if you are calm
and assured. Women can detect nervousness a mile away, and it is a turn off to them... they like confidence.

SC: Approaching her with a compliment or a pick up line.

2. Best approach?

TFD: The best approach is to "not worry about the outcome." You can
approach a woman almost any way, if you understand it is a numbers
game and it doesn't really make any difference if you succeed or fail.
Your odds of success go up dramatically with this attitude.

SC: Wait and observe and when the time is right walk up to her with lots of enthusiasm, tons of charisma, total confidence and make an observation. Then, begin picking on her and making fun of her. Do not let her know that you are interested or that you want her because the second she knows she can have you, she will not want you anymore. This is the game… women want a challenge; men need to learn how to give it to them.

3. What are proven to be the best places to pick-up women?

TFD: Somewhere where there aren't a lot of distractions is the best usually. The internet is good too, but that is a different type of pick-up.

SC: Parties, bars, nightclubs, patio’s, lounges and my favorite: hotel lobby bars! Anywhere where alcohol is involved.

4. A normal guy's batting average is usually what?

TFD: Nearly zero.

SC: 1 out 10 if he’s lucky.

5. What's the best opening line you've ever heard? Did it work?

TFD: You can walk up to a woman and say: "Hi, I don't have time to talk, but if you're single I'd really like to talk to you sometime...do you have email?" And if you do it in a calm, comfortable way you can get a HIGH percentage of women to give you their info right there on the spot, with no conversation needed.

SC: Nice sweater… did your grandmother knit that for you? And, yes it worked like a charm.

6. Most effective way to close the deal and get a date?

TFD: In my view you don't close a deal and get a date. You get her e-mail
or phone number first, WITHOUT doing anything. Then e-mail her or call
her, and set up a time to see her. Don't call it a date, just do
something casual together, so you get a chance to check her out and
see if you are interested in seeing her again. You want to qualify
her, and make it seem like you are qualifying her, not the other way
around.

SC: Wait until you make her laugh (laughter is the key to woman’s heart and also the key into her sweet little panties) Then create a connection by saying something like “you know what… you and I have a lot of chemistry.” She’s going to stop and think and say to herself: “Yeah we do.” Why? Because you just made her laugh. You just created a connection, it’s really that easy! Then, you TELL her to write her number down or you TELL her to give her number to you. Never ask for her number. And if she asks for your number DO NOT GIVE IT TO HER. She will not call you and is only asking to get you off her back. Women look to men for security and leadership and if you don’t deliver, she will relieve you of your duty and take over and that’s usually the beginning of the end for you. To be truly successful at seduction and dating all you need is some balls damn it!

7. What's the best opening line you've ever heard?

TFD: You can walk up to a woman and say "Hi, I don't have time to talk, but if you're single I'd really like to talk to you sometime... do you have email?" And if you do it in a calm, comfortable way you can get a HIGH percentage of women to give you their info right there on the spot with no conversation needed.

SC: Nice sweater… did your grandmother knit that for you? And, yes it worked like a charm.

8. Most effective way to close the deal and get a date?

TFD: In my view you don't close a deal and get a date. You get her e-mail or phone number first, WITHOUT doing anything. Then e-mail her or call her, and set up a time to see her. Don't call it a date, just do something casual together, so you get a chance to check her out and see if you are interested in seeing her again.

SC: Wait until you make her laugh (laughter is the key to woman’s heart and also the key into her sweet little panties).

9. Advice for when to ask a girl out on a second date?

TFD: Depends on the situation, but usually call a day or two after the first date and set up some activity... again, not a "date"... just doing something together. Do NOT appear to anxious to get together again. I DO NOT advise a "dinner" or "movie," but coffee or a drink, or going to a bookstore or mall or something...something different and low key works best in most cases.

SC: Play your cards right and you won’t need a second date.

10. What topics are off limits on a first or second date?

TFD: Boring topics, like where you work, where you or she went to school, etc. Keep it FUN... unpredictable is good.

SC: Do not talk about sex or having it. Do not compliment her over and over again. Do not talk about your ex (unless she talks about hers) and do not discuss any negative aspects of your life. Be happy, be proud and stay positive and don’t you dare let her give you any attitude. Always stand up for yourself, put her down and let her know that she’s the lucky one to be out with you not the other way around. Be cocky, be funny and most importantly be confident, sarcastic and condescending. Beautiful women love guys who think they’re the shit!

11. Should a guy ask a girl if he can kiss her on the first date or just go
for it?

TFD: There is a sure fire way to tell if you can kiss a girl...But if you miss the opportunity for a kiss and don't do it, if she is expecting it, you have just sunk your opportunity for success with her. You need to step up and do it if the opportunity is there.

SC: NEVER EVER ASK A WOMAN IF YOU CAN KISS HER. That is the epitome of insecurity. Wait for your moment or create the moment and then just kiss her. Or do what I do: As she’s talking, tell her to shut up, and then kiss her. Remember she wants to be with a man, not a boy. Act like it!

12. What's more fruitful these days: finding women through the internet or
in real time?

TFD: I like the internet. Women on the internet are LOOKING and available.
That saves a lot of time and the numbers are in your favor.

SC: Are you kidding? The internet is the most useless place to find women. Most the women on the internet are users and are there to feed their own ego’s at your expense. Always real time. Your conversion rates in real time are a hell of a lot higher.

13. The worst mistake a guy makes when he is trying to get a date over the internet?

TFD: Spending too much time e-mailing back and forth, and trying to impress
a girl with his e-mail. NO long e-mails, no kissing ass in e-mails. Keep them short and sweet, and unusual if possible. They should be somewhat personal, but not too much.

SC: Trying to get a date on the internet.

14. How does a guy fend off a cockblocker?

TFD: Make friends with them and deal with them BEFORE your target. Then
move in on your target after the block is comfortable with you. In groups it is BEST to not go for your target first, but others around your target.

SC: Divide and Conquer. They become victims of the game. He puts them down and makes fun of them in front of the girl he’s trying to pick up, it works every time.

15. Is it okay for a guy to date a girl his friend has already been out with?

TFD: I wouldn't usually advise it, unless the other guy truly doesn't care.
There are plenty of women out there, and it is best to stay away from married or involved women, or any woman who can cause potential problems in your life or current relationships.

SC: Only if his friend consents to it. There are plenty of fish in the sea.

16. What's the most important thing a guy can improve to increase his dating
success?

SC: Change the way he dresses, the way he talks and the way he behaves.

TFD: Be comfortable with himself and know who he is. Being yourself is the
best way to achieve success with women...they don't want phonies,
they want a real man.